After (the) Party
Finishing the cleaning today, I did dishes and thought about the menu and evening. I wouldn't say that doing dishes is really a pleasurable thing, but I do enjoy handling my pretty things and looking at everything over before it goes back into the cabinet.
Kitchen Tip: Dinner Parties
I love entertaining. I love the idea of preparing something delicious for someone else, even if it is simple and basic. From fancy food to a casserole, it's fun to think about what you will serve it in and what china you will use. It's always a challenge to consider what little details will make a simple meal special or special meal spectacular. To be a successful host, all you really need is motivation, but I've put together a list of some helpful tips that can assist the novice host in getting started or the most seasoned one hone his game.
When I'm planning a dinner or party, I use something quite shocking: a file folder. True. I copy the recipes I'm going to use from cookbooks and magazines and place them all in the file. I also make a master shopping list and a game plan, which also go into the folder. Sometimes I even make a sketch of the table and how I expect it to look, which also goes into the file. Everything is in one place and you don't have to spend time looking for recipes or moving back and forth between cookbooks. You can also use the file folder as a record keeping device, if you make a note of what dishes you used and who came to dinner, you can file it away and be sure not to repeat your success on the same victims. But, you have the dinner at-the-ready and planned to use on some new victims, n'est-ce pas?
Unless you have a maid or a super-special espresso maker and want to prepare individual coffees, invest in a high quality carafe. You can find these at Target or other home stores, or you might even find one in perfect condition at the thrift store like I did. Consider this: after everyone has finished eating whatever delicious food you have prepared what would you rather do:
- Go into the kitchen; turn on the coffee pot; wait for it to brew; etc. etc.?
- Grab a carafe of coffee and suggest everyone follow you into the living room for dessert?
Give yourself a break and buy something. You don't have to go all Martha Stewart crazy and prepare everything from scratch down to the ketchup. I mean, it IS fun to do that sometimes as a personal challenge, but completely unnecessary. Buy the starter whether it's cheese or a spread from your local delicatessen. Add some olives and crackers and call it done. Your favorite restaurant will probably prepare a portion of a special salad or appetizer that you like, and your guests might discover something new. Or buy the dessert from your favorite bakery. Whether a sacher torte or chocolate cupcakes, your guests will love what you love.
4. The table
Keep it simple. Of course, this is coming from the person who has a hard time keeping it simple. I like to play with the dishes a couple of days before and think about what I'm going to use. Are you still wondering where everything goes? It's the 21st century and rules are made to be broken. Be creative, but be consistent.
The most important thing to consider is how are you going to serve? Here are some pointers for each:
1. You don't need table decoration if what your serving is going to fill the table, but think about little vases or something special at each place setting to smarten up the look of the table. Party favors?
2. Even if you're doing family style, it's still nice to have courses and clear between each.
3. Serve dessert in the other room.
2. Try to arrange your dishes in a sensible order, with the main dish first and sides to follow.
3. You can still set the table with the silver so people don't have to worry about. But, if they're picking it up, put it at the end of the buffet and roll the silver restaurant-style in the napkins.
1. Have a very thorough plan.
2. Keep the number of courses to a minimum: serve appetizers with cocktails; start with a simple salad that's on the table when guests are called in; have dessert already portioned out so you can bring to the table quickly.
3. If you really want to serve your guests, don't let them help with clearing and service. If you really need help, hire it. Really.
1. Placecards
2. Individual salt and peppers
3. Butter in pats at the ready
4. Think small centerpieces, not tall
5. Hand-held fans if it is going to be warm are a fun touch and favor
5. Keep a list
Keep a journal of your entertaining and list the following things:
1. Who came (and if they have any like, dislikes or allergies you may have learned about)
2. What you served
3. What you served it in
4. What you wore. Yes, I know it's ridiculous, but we all have that favorite party outfit and sometimes its hard not to trot it out every time there is an event.
You can have a wall full of cookbooks and still not have any luck figuring out what to prepare for your guests. Or, you could have one good cookbook by an author you trust with time-tested recipes and ideas for entertaining. Find one that works for you (the public library has a huge selection of cookbooks you can check-out and peruse until you find one that works.) and use it as your go-to guide for thinking about dinner. Here are my top five suggestion (yes, I know I said one, but I'm past that part):
1. Mark Bittman, How to Cook Everything (revised edition) or How to Cook Everything Vegetarian
2. Rosso and Lukins, The New Basics Cookbook
3. The Martha Stewart Living Cookbook (both the original classics and new classics editions)
4. Jeane Lemlin, Simple Vegetarian Pleasures
5. The Bon Appetit Cookbook
Tabletop: Everyday Creamer & Sugar
Gadget: Salad Days
Here's my collection of salad tongs: some old, some new, none you can borrow, one set that's blue.
Reminiscing: Epergne
An epergne is a fancy centerpiece, traditionally made from silver (but also from glass in the late 19th century) used to serve a variety of things. You often see these archaic pieces in museums, tier upon tier of little baskets and other small containers intended to hold fruit, sweatmeats and other treats. I love the word, but I also love the object it stands for and the fact that like many serving items, it has gone the way of the dinosaur. Reader, you probably think that just because you eat your dinner with a fork, knife and spoon that your descendants 200 years from now will also eat their dinner with a fork, knife and spoon. But consider this: aristocrats didn't start using forks until the Renaissance. And what's more, they were expected to bring their own when they came to dinner! Plus, more people on this planet use chopsticks than forks. Chances are, in 200 years some completely new food delivery system will have been developed and forks will only be seen in museums. Like epergnes.
Random: Don't Worry, I Found It
So any other pot would be secondary. And had to be different, but still right. I looked at glass pots, retro pots and vintage pots, but sounded like Goldilocks at every turn: "This one is too orange....this one is too tall....the handle on this one doesn't have the right feel...I don't think this one looks good with my hair." Yes, a teapot prima donna of the very worst kind, annoying those around with yet another mad quest.
Luckily for all, the missing box was found and the Heavenly Teapot of Perpetual Happiness was restored to its proper place in the kitchen. Tonight, I am enjoying my favorite wild sweet orange infusion with mesquite honey from the thick-walled peony cups that Jennie and I found on our shopping trip last year as I read the annual Saveur 100 issue. Stop by and I will pour you a cup.
A Butter Dish for Captain Ahab
As part of her eclectic inventory, Emily has a wonderful selection of whimsical offerings from Jonathan Adler, ceramicist and provocateur. Adler has a fun style which he offers up on TV, in his stores and his fantastic book, My Prescription for Anti-Depressive Living. I love his designs, especially to give as gifts…but hadn’t seen the new, mod butter dish in the shape of whale. It was like we were meant to be together. And when I saw the matching pitcher on his web site (Do I need another pitcher? Who cares!), I knew we were all three meant to be together. Of course, the butter dish couldn’t be used for everyday. And I don’t really serve bread at meals that often, but it doesn’t matter because it will look great in my china cabinet. Or yours, ne serait-il pas?
Pantry Raid

So, after the shaman left from the cleansing ritual I had to enact because of the presence of meat in my pantry (The shamanic cleansing cost $500, so if you ever own up to the sausage, expect an invoice.), and after I had done a personal smudging of the space, and after I had cleaned it from top to bottom with a mixture of Kaballah water and sea salt....I decided it was time for a reorganization! I mean, if someone can sneak a giant sausage through my front door and into my pantry right under my nose, I'm clearly not as organized as I should be.
This reorganization resulted in a complete paradigm shift. In the past, I had grouped together like foods by storage method and usage. In the spare spaces, I had stashed overflow utensils and other kitchen instruments. On top of these, odds and ends were crammed into nooks and crannies. While this was useful and worked for the most part, I thought a higher level of organization was possible. I decided to try and include aesthetic choices as part of the overall construction of the space. Pleased with the results, I thought some of the ideas might be useful to you, dear reader.
1. Organize not just for ease of use, but also for looks. You have to open the pantry a couple of times everyday, it might as well seem exciting.
2. Think color and texture. Eventually, I would like to paint the walls of the pantry a nice, soft orange and leave the shelves a clean, bright white. What is going on your shelves? What do your containers look like? Would some dark baskets spruce things up? What about some colorful pots that are in a closet? Could you put some rarely used utensils in them?
3. Decorate everything. Some vintage cookbooks, a small statue or a favorite item could easily add a little bit of life to your shelves. Magazines are always reminding you that bookshelves aren't just for books and I am saying that pantry shelves are not just for cans of beans.
4. Use trays to organize items and keep the place clean. If it goes on something, it's much less likely to wander.
5. Watch out for sausage!
Friday Night Fun
It was a lovely evening with clever conversation and good wine. Have people over for dinner!
Recipe: Lemon Gnocchi with Spinach and Peas
1 cup frozen baby peas (not thawed)
1/2 cup heavy cream
1/8 teaspoon dried hot red-pepper flakes
1 garlic clove, smashed
3 cups packed baby spinach (3 ounces)
1 teaspoon grated lemon zest
1 1/2 teaspoons fresh lemon juice
1 pound dried gnocchi
1/4 cup grated Parmesan
Add spinach and cook over medium-low heat, uncovered, stirring, until wilted. Remove from heat and stir in lemon zest and juice.
Meanwhile, cook gnocchi in a pasta pot of boiling salted water (3 tablespoons salt for 6 quarts water) until al dente. Reserve 1/2 cup pasta-cooking water, then drain gnocchi.
Add gnocchi to sauce with cheese and some of reserved cooking water and stir to coat. Thin with additional cooking water if necessary.
Serves 4. More like, serves two hungry people. I doubled it for the four of us!Time to Entertain?
If not, can I make a few suggestions? (I promise I won't subject you to a parade of all of my serving pieces, which could take all day...)

The Leo all-purpose glass from Crate and Barrel is affordable and slightly different than many of the wine glasses on the market. These would be perfect for your holiday bar, but also for serving dessert. Think: individual trifles, piles of chocolate mouse or scoops of ice cream. Multiple uses means you can easily justify the purchase, but at $1.95 per glass you don't really need to!

Ever affordable, IKEA has a variety of bowls that would be perfect for mashed potatoes, salads and side dishes. Mix and match colors, textures and styles loosely for a table that is warm, welcome-y and homey.

Happy Holidays!
Don't Say I didn't Warn You...

...but in this month's issue of Bon Appétit, they have proclaimed that the punch bowl is BACK. Literally. Dear reader, recall that you heard it here first (never doubt me!) and that I have been proclaiming the social merits of the punch bowl forever. In my opinion, the punch bowl never left the party, so there is no reason to declare it back. And what say you? Will you jump on this bandwagon, or wait until it's too late and everyone has a punch bowl while your sideboard sits empty? What? You don't even have sideboard? Get thee to the furniture store!



Looking for a new Creamer/Sugar?

And now, a PARADE OF SUGARS AND CREAMERS for your pleasure and amusement!

This set says: I have a small table and need something economical, space wise. Plus I revere classic, American design.
This set says: I'm traditional, yet slightly funky. My walls are covered with Erté prints.

This set says: I'm funky. I wear vintage, fifties glasses. Atomic forever!

This set says: Simple, elegant design is timeless and without compare. California pottery has no equl in the world of vintage china.

This set says: I will never get over the passing of the 80s.

These say, from left to right: I make my own pottery. I'm a hippy; My grandmother was a minor, German aristocrat who lost everything in the war and this is the only piece she escaped Europe with; I'm from Oklahoma.
Punch! POW!

Punch at a shower is a longstanding tradition and when I was growing up at Plainview Baptist Church in Tulsa, OK there were a couple women in the fellowship who had THE punch bowl. (My Mam-ma was one of them and now mom has the bowl, and more cups than you can imagine, to loan out.) I love the idea of THE punch bowl, because its very communal. It's one of those things that not everyone has to own, but is passed around for special events. If you are having a shower or party that necessitates punch, you just call up the person with THE punch bowl and ask to borrow it. That person bring THE punch bowl and everyone enjoys the punch. In the Southern Baptist Church tradition, you would expect some mints and mixed nuts to accompany the punch at a wedding and perhaps some simple tea sandwiches for a shower. Or maybe just cake.

If you're interested in buying a punch bowl and being one of the people with THE punch bowl, I suggest searching thrift stores and antique malls. I found the following while just out an about:




Recipe: Angel Punch
This simple non-alcoholic punch is flavored with green tea. If you wanted to add a little punch to your punch, you could substitute a dry sparkling wine for the club soda and maybe a little lemon-flavored vodka.
1 cup sugar syrup (1 cup sugar, 1 cup water. Bring to a boil and simmer until the sugar is dissolved. Chill.)
1 pint lemon juice, freshly squeezed
1 quart strong green tea
2 quarts white grape juice
2 quarts chilled club soda
Combine all ingredients except soda and refrigerate until well chilled. Pour into punch bowl and add soda. To keep the punch cold, freeze slices of lemon or some of the punch mixture in ice cube trays. Using ice can dilute the flavor.
Makes about 45 4 -ounce servings.
Recipe: Planter's Punch
A classic southern recipe constructed from fresh fruit juices, rum and club soda, it's perfect for any season.
1 1/2 cups freshly squeezed orange juice (4 to 5 oranges)
3/4 cup freshly squeezed lime juice (5-6 limes)
2/3 cup freshly squeezed lemon juice (4-5 lemons)
1 1/2 cups dark rum
46 ounces of pineapple juice
1/2 cup sugar
1/4 tsp bitters
1 liter club soda
Combine juices in a large container, add rum, sugar and bitter. Stir to combine. Chill until ready to serve. Just before serving, add mixture to punch bowl along with chilled pineapple juice and soda. Use frozen slices of the fruit to keep your punch nice and cold.
Salut!
Shopping for Your Kitchen

Real Simple published a nice on-line shopping guides for various aspects of your home. The list for the kitchen has some great sources, if for nothing else besides browsing and dreaming.

Happy shopping!